Patience is a virtue, but it’s not always easy. Such was the case with present circumstances. “Deep breath,” I told myself. “Hold your horses and stop talking. Send him to his room, you go to yours. You need to calm down and have patience. This is not earth-shattering.” There are many benefits of being patient- benefits that I needed to remember right then.
I needed to remember how to be patient. After this episode was over, I wanted to learn how to master patience. I sent my son to his room, and with a sigh, put down the shoe I had purchased for him 4 days earlier with the lace that was completely torn up from him walking on it all day.
What is the Meaning of Patience?
When I googled the meaning of patience it said, “the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset.” It never ceases to amaze me that a few words can be used to define a concept that’s so difficult to practice at times. What does patience mean to you?
To me, it means that I stop myself from getting upset or worked up over minor things, as I was about to in the opening paragraph. (More on what happened with my son at the end of this post.) It also means that I wait for things without complaining or trying to hurry them up.
At any rate, patience falls under the category of “the right thing is not always easy.”
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Why is Patience a Virtue?
Before we get into the benefits of being patient, or why patience is a virtue, let’s back up a bit. What IS a virtue anyway? Before we can expand on why patience is a virtue, we have to know what virtue is.
Simply put, a virtue is a behavior showing high moral standards. So does patience show a high moral standard? Yes, it does. Patience is an exercise in self-control.
Sure, I may have been able to relieve some pressure from anger and frustration if I had not taken that first deep breath. But would it have been worth it? I went to my room because I needed a time out to stop and think about what the consequences of my actions would be. Would it be worth it to start yelling at my son for being irresponsible and shredding his shoelace on his brand new shoe? Would he learn anything from it? What did I want to teach him?
It took a LOT to control myself, because the whole day had been a series of small mishaps, and to me, that was just the icing on the cake. But I’m really glad that I did.
Is Patience Important in Life?
Patience is very important in life. In today’s modern age, most of us can get annoyed pretty easily. (*raises hand* Yes, I’m guilty!) It might be a traffic jam, it might be being interrupted for the millionth time, it may be getting re-directed 5 times when you are trying to find a real customer service person to speak to instead of a recording. Most of the time, these are very minor things. (Like a shredded shoelace.)
One of the many benefits of being patient is that patience helps us to make better decisions. Patience is the pause that helps us get our thoughts back in order and our feelings under control. It gives us the persistence to carry out things that will lead us to a long-term goal and helps us realize that success will come to those who keep trying.
Another benefit to being patient is that it helps preserve our relationships with those that we care about. Had I not paused and gone off on my son for that shredded shoelace, even at seven years old, he would have realized that I was over-reacting. My yelling would have hurt his feelings far more than was justified in proportion to his offense.
How Does Patience Help You Succeed?
Patience is a huge factor in success because good things take time. In a post that I wrote on transforming perfectionism, I talked about a little potter’s wheel that my husband and I got when we were first married. I expected master grade results on my first time. Spoiler alert: I didn’t get it. I didn’t even get anything that looked remotely like what I had in mind. As a result, I had no patience with it and quickly gave it up.
When I started blogging, however, I realized that I would get better with time. I knew that it was going to be full of skills that I would learn along the way and with practice, I would improve. I had patience. My first year of blogging may not have been all that impressive with the numbers, but by golly, I would not give anything for the journey and what I learned.
According to entreprenuer.com, “Patience radically increases your capacity for success.” It helps us lay aside frustration, which can lead to quitting, it helps us think more positively and make better decisions, as well as help build our reputations.
What are the Benefits of Being Patient?
Being patient gives you many benefits. Here are my top 10 benefits to being patient!
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Benefit of Being Patient #1: Helps Focus on Long Term Goals
Back in December, I did a review of the Slay Your Goals Planner that I purchased and am still using. Before the year even began, I was thinking about my long-term goals, and how to get there.
Here’s the thing– I knew they were not going to happen overnight. In fact, much of the reason I bought the planner in the first place was to help me break down my goals. When I have a minor setback or something doesn’t work the way that I planned, I can have the patience to say, “that’s ok. I’ll try something else.” One of the benefits of being patient is that it helps you set and achieve your long terms goals.
Benefit of Being Patient #2: Make More Rational Choices
This is a major benefit to being patient. When you are overcome with emotion, you are not going to make very good choices. Your brain can’t think straight – all it sees is the emotion that you are feeling which is temporarily over-riding your rational thinking.
That’s why I needed a time out – I needed to get over the annoyance that I was feeling with my son for shredding the lacing of his brand new shoe. Being patient allowed me to make a more rational and mindful choice about how to react.
Benefit of Being Patient #3: Builds our Reputation for Persistence
No one likes a quitter. If I am going to do business with someone or have interactions with someone, I want to know that they are going to be around for the long haul. One of the benefits of being patient is that it builds your reputation for persistence, which in turn, generates trust.
Benefit of Being Patient #4: Helps to Develop a Skill Set
My husband surprised me the other day with a tennis racket and a few balls. I found this very sweet since it was a surprise for no reason and it had been YEARS since I mentioned to him that trying it sounded like fun. We went off to the tennis court and believe it or not… I do not think I would have been much of a challenge for Serena Williams.
Neither of us had ever played much and we did not have the skill set! What we DID have was a good time, and lots of calories burned, mostly chasing after the ball. However, I could tell that we got better the more we played.
In all transparency, I still miss a lot more than I actually hit the ball. However, it takes a lot of swings – for any skill set before you can knock the ball back at any sort of a respectable rate. You still have to step up, take the swing, and have the patience to keep swinging. That’s another benefit to being patient – when you are willing to put in the swings time and time again, that’s what builds your skill set.
Benefit of Being Patient #5: Makes You a People Magnet!
Yet another benefit of being patient is that it makes people attracted to you. If you are a patient person, they will want to deal with you more than they will someone blows their top when they get mad. We all make mistakes from time to time. People will want to talk to someone that will be patient with their mistakes, especially if they are trying to learn and develop a skill set.
Benefit of Being Patient #6: Better Mental Health
When you are not patient, that’s when worry tends to set in. Worrying too much is not good for your mental health. If you are constantly going “what if” you are not enjoying the things that are. Most things that we have to be patient for are not things that can be hurried along. Better mental health is one of the benefits of patience because while you are waiting, you rest instead of feeling like a coiled-up spring inside.
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Benefit of Being Patient #7: Better Physical Health
People that have patience usually enjoy better physical health as well as mental health. The more I research the more I find that the two seem to be linked. It makes sense. If I don’t feel well, it affects my mental state and my outlook on life. When you cultivate positive thoughts, it makes your physical health better as well. Thus, one of the benefits of being patient is better physical health as well.
When you are impatient, you stress more about things. Stress has been linked to things such as heart disease, as well as things like ulcers and high blood pressure, and stomach issues.
Benefit of Being Patient #8: It’s a Way to Practice Kindness (Which makes You Feel Good Too!)
Being patient can be hard! Sometimes it seems like I struggle with it daily. However, do you remember that I said that one of the benefits of being patient was that it made you a people magnet? There is a reason for that: being patient is a way that you can practice kindness. When my kids were toddlers, my patience experienced a growth spurt. It had to! There were a million little requests and it seemed like I could not go 15 minutes without interruption unless they were napping.
Think about it from a child’s point of view – you can’t get a drink, so you ask Mom, who you love and adore and quite literally look up to if you can have a drink. She gives you a big cup. But it takes her a minute, so while you are waiting you notice that the tiles on the ground are squares in a pattern. Let’s jump on the squares! Jump! Jump! Crash! Right into Mom who spills water all over your head and on the floor. You didn’t mean to bump into her.
Mom has two choices: she can yell at you and get mad, or she can have patience and say “Oops! You were jumping and bumped into me. Your glass was full of water and it spilled right on your head! Is it cold? Let’s get a towel and clean up this mess, then I will fix you another glass of water.”
Which is the kinder choice? Notice I did not say the “easiest choice” or the “most common choice.” Often times the right thing and the kind thing is not the easiest thing, but it is always worth doing anyway. As a mother, I always felt better when I made the kinder choice and had patience.
Benefit of Being Patient #9: It can Bring You Peace
I feel much more at peace when I practice patience. When I am impatient, all it does is bring about discontent. It makes me feel on edge, I do not enjoy the time that I am waiting, or I can get very discouraged if what I am waiting for is a challenging situation to pass. I think the peace it brings to my heart and to my life is one of the best benefits of being patient there is.
Benefit of Being Patient #10: It’s a Way to Practice Faith
God’s time is not always our time. ( Which is annoying.) I pray and I ask God for what I want and I want it NOW! Kind of reminds you of that toddler I talked about asking for a drink earlier, doesn’t it? There is a toddler inside all of us that wants things now! Often we change our minds about what we want as often as that toddler too.
However, that’s not how it works. Psalms 40:1 says “I waited PATIENTLY for the Lord; and he inclined unto me and heard my cry.” That one word is a kicker, isn’t it? It is for me. It does away with my impatient cries of “NOW!!!” If you are praying for something and it’s not happening, know that you are practicing faith in patiently waiting for the Lord.
I used to think that my Prince Charming was lost in the desert somewhere and I would never meet my “Mr. Right.” I kept praying for him and praying for him, but he didn’t come. God was still working on his heart, making him the man that I needed him to be. In hindsight, we met each other at exactly the right time because it was God’s time. God has a time for what you are praying for as well. Remember that often God answers prayers “Yes,” “No,” and “Wait.”
Patience Quotes to Remember (And Repeat to Yourself When You are Struggling.)
Patience is a virtue, but it’s not an easy one. Here are a few patience quotes that I find helpful. Feel free to pin any or all of them!
“Patience is not simply the ability to wait – it’s how we behave while we’re waiting.”-Joyce Meyer
“Patience with others is Love. Patience with self is Hope. Patience with God is Faith.”-Adel Bestavros
“A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves you a hundred moments of regret.”Ali Ibn Abu Talib
“Patience is a form of wisdom. It shows that we understand and accept the fact that sometimes things must unfold in their own time.”– Jon Kabat-Zinn
“Patience is when you are supposed to be mad but you choose to understand.”– Via (The Minds Journal)
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The Last Thing You Need to Know About The Benefits of Being Patient
Friends, patience is a hard road to follow, but it’s one that’s worthwhile. When you are patient, it improves your mental and physical health, it’s a good way to practice faith and can bring you great peace. Among the benefits of being patient are that it makes you a people magnet because you are using it as a way to practice kindness. It helps to build your reputation for persistence, develops your skill set, and helps you make more rational choices so you can focus on your long-term goals. Patience is important in life and will help you succeed both personally and professionally.
As for my son, I went to my room, closed the door and hit my knees and prayed. When you are a Christian mother raising children, it involves a lot of praying. A lot of times it’s “Lord, please don’t let me mess them up!” and “Thank you for blessing me with my children. Please help me to be a better mother to them.”
Afterward, I went into him in his room, sat down on the floor with him and calmly told him how I felt. I explained why paying attention to detail and taking care of our things is important. I still let him know that I was unhappy with him and that he needed to STOP and tie his shoes instead of walking on the laces all day, but I felt good about how it turned out. Before I left, I hugged him and told him I loved him. (Then made him go get his shoes on and practice tying them five times each.)
What Benefits of Being Patient Have You Seen In Your Life?
How has patience benefitted you in your life? Can you tell me about a time that you practiced patience or that you wish you had? Leave me a comment below! I’d love to hear from you!
46 thoughts on “10 Powerful Benefits of Being Patient”
It is inspiring, God bless you.
I’m so glad that you found it inspiring. Thank you, Lowa!
PATIENCE WITH GOD IS FAITH and I was not aware.
It’s a humbling way to think about it, but I think it’s also very God- honoring.
What an amazing topic, it helps me to understand that their is love in patient.
Thanks and God bless you.
Thank you for your kind words! I’m so glad that my words were a blessing to you.
I can’t thank you enough for the rich article on “Patience”. Usually, impatience makes waiting seem longer – it can mean waiting for a taxi. You have particularly taught me to learn to be patient as I would when waiting for a pregnancy to be due! This is amazing! You just can’t wake up one morning and decide to have your baby born when the pregnancy is just 5 months simply because you can’t put up with the morning sickness!!
Love that analogy! Well said and thank you for sharing!
This is great Jennifer the way you have penned it seems like its coming from some holy book.
Thank you for your kind words, Ganjanan. I appreciate your thoughtfulness, however I am no holy book writer; just an ordinary person. They are just heartfelt words that I hope make a difference in the lives of others.
Thankyou for your words. It’s not just an article. It’s help from the heart.
Shivani, thank you. ???? That means more to me than you know.
Wow that’s a great sermon on patient it has really helped me coz am not very patient to be honest I need things to be done first and I don’t like waiting. Thanks alot and God bless you
Hi Matthew. While I never intended the article to be a sermon, it makes me very happy to know you were touched by the article and found it helpful. Patience is hard. Waiting is hard, and often times it’s not very fun. We want things to hurry up and happen on our own time schedule, but sometimes they just don’t. If you need additional help, you might want to check out my free online course, “Questing for Patience.” It’s a great tool for when you need patience and you need it now! https://contentmentquesting.teachable.com/p/questing-for-patience
Thank you! ❤
i wish all mothers were like you and i wish GOD change everybody to think like you then we would just have peaceful and beautiful homes with faith and smiles on our faces all times…thanks for the idea and GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY SWEET MUM
Hi Rogers. Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement. We are all works in progress. While I may not always have a smile on my face, and my faith falters from time to time, just as everyone does, I try to continually work to improve myself.
This is a good and colossal contribution to the growth of man! thank you for good work!
You nailed it!
Thank you, BR. Glad you got some good out of it.
I enjoyed this article and the illustrations very much. Patience is a key in a ‘high quality’ life. You’ve said it so well!
Thank you so much, Colleen!
I love what you said about Patience so Authentic God inspired every word you said. The lord woke me up and told me to tell his people to be Patience in this season and also said to have the right Perspective then Peace will be released over your life. I thought that was so Powerful. In this Season with Covid-19 going on People need this word . I was honored to get a better take on patience through reading your information on this Blog Thanks so much.
I am humbled by your kind words. Thank you. ❤
First off, thanks a lot Jennifer for this wonderful blog. It made may day.
I am a Sales professional and being patient has helped me. I do all the essential stuff required to generate a sale from greeting to introduction to pitching the product and building the relation. I never hurry and I patiently listen to my prospects to get a deep understanding of their needs. As a result the sale gradually comes to me.
Fantastic example, Umair!
When we give times/patinece to everyting >> then we can see the real result
Thank you for the kind words, Saif!
Great post! I learned some new things about patience. I’d like your free printable please.
Sure Kathie! I’d be happy to send you the printable that goes with this post. Send me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org I’ll reply back with the printable. 🙂
This is really good Jennifer. Thank you and God bless you. You have said it all. Just to add from my reading of the Parable of the Wheat and Weeds that Jesus told we see that Patience is not weakness or ignorance on our part as some may think. It is wisdom, strength and all about saving a life or restoring one in the long run. Thank you Jennifer. God bless you.
this is fantabulous
Thank you, Solomon!
As being born in 2002, I don’t know why I find myself very impatient. When I was a kid, I used to get very frustrated on not getting things that I wanted. I never realized that this is impatience. But today I was analyzing myself and realized that I am very very impatient person although I thought it is good thing to have because you will get a chance of doing a lot of things in minimum time. But when I read your article, just realized I was wrong. Your article has really helped me a lot. I am going to implement this in my life. By the way, do you have any suggestion on how to deal with impatience? Because sometimes it is very difficult to not to get impatient.
Dayu, thank you so much for sharing your very insightful story. There is a time for jumping in with both feet and chasing your dreams. But there is also a time to sit back and wait. Some things just take time and patience, like most other things is somethinh that gets better with practice. I have another post called 20 Powerful Ways to Master Patience as well as the Improve your patience email course. Let me know if you do not find what you are looking for there and/or still have questions. I will be happy to help.
thank you so much I have really learnt a lot from today’s topic I really appreciate ???? cause I do find it very difficult to be patient with people especially if they provoke me and it’s will end scattering the relationship I have built with them but from today I will put it into practice
thank you so much i have learnt alot about patience today
Thank you, Aisha! I’m so glad you found it helpful.
Patience is to listen your wife with love & attention during your whole life even if you do not understand her, cheers
Thnks my dear sister i got alot of idea abou patient
Glad that I was able to help! 🙂
I love it, thNk you very much for your insight
Thank you, Samuel, for the kind words. You made my day!
Thanks for inspiring me to be patient.
Thank you for the kind words!